The Disruptor and the Realignment

Why this book needs you to help me give it a new name.

This week during the pause with purpose, I had two conversations that changed everything.

The second conversation was with @FleurHull a book marketing strategist. She’d just reviewed my Substack and a part of the manuscript when she said:

“Can I be honest? I think calling it ‘The Trinity of You’ might pigeonhole it as religious. You could lose people before they even read it. Why not just call it ‘Decode Your Diagnosis,’ like your Substack?”

Her words stopped me. Not because I disagreed, but because deep down, I knew she was right.

You see, The Trinity of You wasn’t just a title. It was a structure that held me together through cancer, heart disease, and identity collapse. It represented the integration of mind, body, and soul. The three forces I had to realign in order to heal. Letting go of that phrase on the cover and throughout the content ecosystem felt like letting go of the framework that saved me.

But then I remembered something else.

At the beginning of this week, I’d had a private reading with a Shadow Work expert named @TaraKabatoff. She’d said this, almost in passing:

“Someone’s coming who will disrupt your direction. Not negatively, they’ll challenge the form, not the soul, of what you’re doing.”

I didn’t know what she meant at the time. It didn’t make sense. But Fleur’s message… that landed like an anchor dropped over the side of a ship.

This book and the philosophy isn’t changing its essence. But I would like your help to change its name.

The reason is because my system isn’t about doctrine. It’s about invitation.

Decode Your Diagnosis is the gateway.

The Trinity of You is the treasure inside. Except it’s not “The Trinity of You” so what is it.

So for now, I’m pausing the rework, sitting with this disruption. Thinking it through fully. Listening more deeply than I ever have before.

Sometimes, disruption isn’t interference.

It’s the hand that removes the final stone from a dam.

So Can you please choose which of the concepts still resonates as a book title as something I can replace throughout the Decode Your Diagnosis content ecosystem.

Please put your answer in the comments of the post the on my substack publication. You’ll find an exact duplication post and note there, doesn’t matter which one you put your answer on. I’ll be collating both.

We are looking for something without any religious overtones.

1. The Axis of You: Heal From The Inside Out

2. Decode Your Diagnosis: The Threefold Path to Dynamic Self-Healing

3. The Core Code: Rewriting Your Inner Operating System Beyond Chronic Intervention

4. The Trifector of You: Decode Your Diagnosis by Aligning Mind, Body and Soul

Stay with me. There’s far more to come.

Sincerely,

Paul

P.S- I’m extending the pause for another week because the next chapter to drop was “The Trinity of You” and I need to find it a new name before releasing it.

So over to you.